The desire to pursue education and find employment abroad remains a dream for many young Indians, especially concerning the USA, where a large number of people travel annually in search of better jobs, higher income, and an improved quality of life.
However, an Indian couple residing in America has cautioned young people against hasty decisions, advising them to think deeply before emigrating. They noted that the situation in India today is drastically different from when they themselves decided to move to the USA.
Suhas and Priyanka, who shared their views in a video interview, gave direct advice to those planning to travel: 'Do not come to America.' Suhas explained that when they moved, finding a good job and achieving a better standard of living in India was extremely difficult. At that time, the USA seemed like a more attractive alternative, and the path to employment after studying there appeared simpler.
Nevertheless, Suhas believes that circumstances have changed. In his opinion, today young people in India have numerous opportunities for quality education, employment, and career building. He emphasized that many tasks that previously required moving abroad can now be accomplished while remaining in India.
Suhas also stressed that moving to another country is not just about increasing salary. He pointed out that a high price must be paid by giving up family, friends, and one's homeland. It seemed to him that it is not easy to find one's place among strangers in a new country; for many, it is difficult to make new friends, adapt to a different culture, and feel part of that society. Suhas admitted that despite years of living in the US, he still does not feel completely accepted.
One of the most significant drawbacks, according to the couple, is the distance from family. Parents, relatives, and old friends remain in India, while the person living abroad immerses themselves in their life and work. Suhas speculated that if he were making the decision to move now, while in India, he might have acted differently. However, he clarified that he cannot suddenly return to India because he has built his life here over the years, and returning would require significant effort and financial investment to start anew.
Suhas highlighted immigration-related problems faced by Indians in America. He reported that the journey from getting a job to obtaining a green card for Indians is never simple, and many have to wait a long time. Furthermore, visa status can affect the ability to work. Concerns also persist regarding the career status of the spouse and the immigration status of children. Therefore, he urged young people not to base their decision to move solely on salary size. Aspects such as visa regime, job stability, distance from family, children's future, and the need for long-term sustainability must be considered.
Following this couple's statement on social media, a discussion began. Some users supported their viewpoint, arguing that it is better to work near family in one's home country. Others opposed, insisting that if a good opportunity for study or work arises in the USA or another country, it should definitely be taken advantage of.
Ultimately, the answer to whether leaving is right is individual. For some, moving abroad may be the best choice for education and career, while others may be happier staying close to family and their country. The main message of this couple is that the decision to emigrate cannot be made based solely on a high salary or external appeal; it must be made considering personal needs, career, family, visa status, and the future.
