July 24, 18:43

Haya Dlanga discusses the resilience, authenticity, and influence of his mother's beliefs

Successful author Haya Dlanga explained how his mother's quiet ambitions shaped his resilience and authenticity. He shared thoughts on life lessons that helped him become the person he is today.

Partnership and Inspiration

Dlanga recently announced a collaboration with the renowned single malt whisky brand Highland Glenmorangie as part of the 'The Height of Character' campaign for Africa. Three influential African storytellers are involved in this campaign: Dlanga, Kenyan actress Kate Kamau, and Nigerian musician and creative director Darey Art Alade. The goal of the collaboration is to highlight the connection between mastery, patience, and character.

Speaking about his late mother, Dlanga recalled how she supported him in subtle yet strong ways. He noted that she was not someone who pushed people using obvious methods, but rather encouraged action until the person realized it themselves. His mother often reminded him that he was a 'lucky child,' which he only understood years later. Despite his public confidence, Dlanga admits that self-assurance does not always come naturally, as he considers himself a 'natural skeptic.'

However, instead of letting doubts define him, he learned to maintain hope. He believes it is better to be disappointed in the expectation of something than to have no hope at all, because a lack of hope means a lack of big dreams and distrust in one's own abilities. This philosophy extends to dealing with failures. According to Dlanga, his resilience stems from memories of where he started. He knows what it is like to have nothing, and that has not broken him. Therefore, the fear of failure has lost its former power, as he believes that falling into need again will not destroy him, and he can always rise.

For a person who built a career on honest and witty storytelling, authenticity remains one of his core principles. In an era where social media is filled with carefully edited images, Dlanga values showing the full picture. He argues that successful people have a responsibility to acknowledge their origins. He emphasizes the importance of showcasing one's journey. The most touching moment was his reflection on what home is: 'Home is a place where you truly don't fall. Home catches you.'

iol.co.zaJuly 22, 15:58

Actress Mamona Motshegoa returns with the drama 'Critically Stable,' dedicated to family and marriage

The SAFTA award-winning actress, Mamona Motshegoa, will once again appear on screen with a new outstanding role in the series 'Critically Stable.' This project is based on the acclaimed novel by Angela McHalevy.

Role and Plotline

Motshegoa plays the role of Nomah, the devoted wife of Duke, played by Fortune Tobejane. The character of Nomah is described as a warm and compassionate woman with an unwavering moral compass. She intuitively understands that while the right action may come at a high cost, choosing the wrong path for a seemingly correct reason ultimately leads to destruction.

Working with Colleagues

Motshegoa felt a connection to the character of Nomah from the beginning. She enjoyed working with her on-screen husband, Fortune Tobejane, whom she describes as sincere, cheerful, and very easy to talk to. The actress noted that 'not a single day on set did he let me laugh. He is also very humble. We became good friends, and he could confide in me many things, which helped me better understand him as a person and as an actor.'

Reflections on Marriage and Partnership

The series 'Critically Stable' explores the complexities of masculinity and delves into the multifaceted aspects of marriage. When Motshegoa was asked what the series taught her about partnership in marriage and friendship, she replied: 'Marriage is tested by time, and every day it is a choice to remain faithful.' She advised: 'Fall in love with a person's soul, not their appearance or possessions. If life takes those things away, it is the soul that will preserve your love.'

The Importance of Honesty and Faith

The actress emphasized that friendship is crucial in marriage, and that relationships built on honesty, strong morals, and faith can withstand the test of time. She cited a religious thought: 'God's word says: 'Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.' This also applies to marriage. Seek someone who seeks the Kingdom of God first, and everything else will follow.'

A Message to Female Viewers

Motshegoa hopes that women watching this series will see themselves in Nomah. The main lesson she wants to convey to women, regardless of their marital status, is that loving oneself is not selfishness. She stated: 'It is important to know your worth so that you are treated like a queen by your husband or partner, and so that you return that love.' Furthermore, she expressed hope that viewers will realize the importance of honoring their immediate family over external parties and making wise choices about a life partner, as this person's decisions and actions will ultimately affect them.

Relationship Advice

The actress added that love requires compromise, but this compromise should never feel like a betrayal of oneself. She strongly advises: 'First of all, trust God in any situation and remember that whatever season you are going through—good or bad—it will pass.' Motshegoa urges viewers to watch 'Critically Stable,' calling it a beautiful and intimate story unlike anything seen before. She is confident that the series 'will make you laugh, keep you on the edge of your seat, and provoke important conversations.'

The series addresses real problems and types of questions that families face behind closed doors but are often afraid to discuss openly. The premiere of the 13-episode drama will take place on Mzansi Magic (DStv Channel 161) on Sunday, July 26, 2026.

Haya Dlanga discusses the resilience, authenticity, and influence of his mother's beliefs

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