When comparing countries like India and Norway, discussions usually revolve around salary levels, healthcare quality, public transport, and overall standard of living. However, one Indian who has lived in both countries for many years asserts that the most significant difference lies not in these aspects, but in how children are raised in each nation.
NRI's View on Childhood in India
A new discussion was sparked by a post from an NRI named Vinod on the social network X. He believes that in India, childhood is often lost in the race for academics, exams, and high scores. Vinod described the daily routine of many Indian children as extremely exhausting: school in the morning, followed by coaching classes, then tutoring, homework, and preparation for the next test.
He noted that this situation has become so normalized that no one considers it wrong. Parents spend huge amounts of money on their children's education, and schools are under pressure to show good results, while the coaching industry constantly grows. In his words, the children themselves bear the greatest damage, unknowingly losing their childhood.
The Education System in Norway
Vinod emphasized that in Norway and other Scandinavian countries, children are not turned into mere machines for achieving high grades. There, they are given sufficient time for play, sports, socializing with friends and family. In his opinion, the goal of education should not be solely about achieving the maximum score on an exam; it is equally important to raise individuals who strive to understand things, are self-sufficient, and can solve problems. He added that society does not need children who only know the phrase 'yes, sir.'
Discussion on Competition and Criticism
User opinions regarding Vinod's post were varied. Some pointed out that the high competition in India is due to its large population and limited spots in prestigious educational institutions, making the pressure on parents and children a natural phenomenon. Nevertheless, Vinod believes that despite the competition, it should not lead to the loss of curiosity and childhood in children. He suggested that schools should consider creativity, communication skills, practical understanding, and problem-solving ability alongside grades.
Other users agreed that Indian children begin to carry the burden of family expectations from an early age. Questions were raised about heavy school bags, constant homework, and rote learning. They argued that if children are given opportunities to learn practically, they can absorb material better. This discussion once again raises the question: are we depriving children of their childhood in the pursuit of success? Should children have the same right to play, curiosity, and a free life, alongside hard work, dreams, and competition?



