In life, time is not constant: sometimes there are joyful moments, and sometimes we are surrounded by problems. When any misfortune arises, most people make the same mistake. They start asking questions like: why did this happen to me? What is my fault? Or why am I in this difficult situation?
Example from Life
Popular motivational speaker Gor Gopal Das explains this idea with a simple example. Imagine a snake bites you on the road. What will you do? Will you chase after that snake to find out why it bit you? Or will you immediately go to the doctor for treatment? Obviously, the sensible decision is to treat the wound, not to chase the snake.
Shifting the Mindset
However, in real life, we do the exact opposite. We continue to pursue the problem and feel helpless. According to Gor Gopal Das, the question 'Why did this happen to me?' constantly keeps us in the past (yesterday), which we can never change. Instead of getting upset about difficulties, we should ask ourselves the right questions.
Seeking Solutions Instead of Problems
As soon as we change our question and ask ourselves: 'What can I do to fix the current situation?', our thinking transforms. This single question moves us from a state of weakness to a state of strength. Our mind exits the trap of 'why' and begins to look for solutions, meaning 'what to do'. Therefore, when a sudden major problem arises in life, one should focus not on the problem itself, but on finding a solution. It is necessary to consider what this situation teaches and what is within your power at the moment. Only by asking the right questions can one remain happy and move forward in life.