The family who experienced the tragedy is awaiting a court hearing against the mother's boyfriend from Knysna, who allegedly searched search engines for ways to avoid murder charges.
Circumstances of Velia Strydom's Death
The mother from Knysna, Velia Strydom, was brutally murdered. Her family had to observe her fortieth birthday without her, despite her meticulously preparing a celebration at the Protea Hotel with a turquoise and rose gold theme. A family representative and Strydom's uncle, Warrick Langisa, noted that Velia prepared all the details of the celebration but could not attend.
According to reports, her boyfriend, Marvin Bock, 40, strangled her in his apartment on Trotter Street in Knysna in December. He allegedly wrapped her body in a sheet, placed it in a rented car, and dumped it in bushes near the Red Bridge. The body remained there for six days until the police discovered it 13 days before Christmas.
Investigation and Arrest
Due to the severe decomposition of the body, when officers made a public appeal for identification assistance, they could only describe that the woman was wearing a floral skirt, had white nail polish, and was not wearing an upper garment. Bock was arrested and charged with murder and obstruction of justice, and he was denied bail.
According to Detective Sergeant Mqondisi Dyani, Bock did not want to be caught, as he provocatively searched Google for phrases such as 'how long does it take to recover from strangulation,' 'how long does a body stay cold after death,' and 'people who evade punishment for murder.' The case was transferred to the High Court for trial at the beginning of this month.
Children's Lives After the Tragedy
Seven months later, Velia's children continue to cope with the fact that they will never see their mother again. The youngest child, who is only 12 years old, is experiencing significant difficulties, as noted by Langisa. The children now live in different parts of the country, which hinders them from grieving together. Two younger boys are being raised by Strydom's mother, one of whom attends boarding school, the other studies to be a teacher in Bloemfontein, and the eldest recently qualified as a nurse.
Langisa emphasized the complexity of the situation due to the lack of physical presence of all the children. Due to the condition of the body, it was not even possible to open the coffin to say goodbye to Velia. Nevertheless, the family keeps her memory alive, often recalling her, as the loss left a huge void in their lives.
Velia's Memory and Final Hours
The family recalls that Velia loved her children above all else and raised them to be outstanding individuals. She also dreamed of opening a kindergarten for underprivileged and special needs children, similar to what she previously managed in Kariega, formerly known as Witengate. Langisa described her as a person with a contagious laugh and smile, always caring for the happiness of others.
Most of the information about Velia's final hours was obtained from evidence presented during Bock's bail application. Dyani told the Knysna court that a witness was present with the couple at a club on December 5th when Bock became aggressive towards Strydom, grabbed her, and pulled her out. Surveillance footage showed Bock entering his apartment with Strydom that night and leaving alone the next day. He allegedly returned in a car borrowed from a friend, and video recorded him carrying what looked like a body and loading it into the vehicle.
When Strydom's friends became concerned, Bock assured them that she was safe with him, explaining her silence as a broken phone. Langisa added that Bock took her phone and used it to fend off those trying to contact her. When the police arrived to arrest Bock on New Year's Eve, Dyani testified that he attempted to escape by jumping from the balcony. Officers confiscated his phone and found a series of alarming search queries, including those related to recovery time after strangulation, how long a body stays cold after death, and people who evade punishment for murder.
Family's Demands to the Court
Bock pleaded not guilty. The court hearing is scheduled for August 5th. The family waited seven months for the trial and only asked for its fairness. Langisa appealed to the court to let Velia's voice be heard through this process, as she can no longer speak for herself. They insist that a just truth and deserved justice must be ensured for Velia, and the family stated that they will attend the trial until its conclusion.